Hi. I am new here, well actually not really new, I am I guess what you call a "lurker" for a couple of years or so. Grew up in the organization but after a divorce began questioning my beliefs and what I was taught. I usually read the posts at work (which my system there did not allow to register or post myself) and am able to get some good thoughts and reasonings on many subjects - THANKS!! I was always a bit skeptical when it came to the subject of pedophiles in the organization. Nah, there can't be that many, it can't be that big of a problem, I would think. Well just recently I was reading here about this subject and was directed to another site that allows you to find registered sex offenders in your neighborhood. I checked out the area where I grew up & where my younger 11 year old bro lives (who are witnesses) and right off the bat recognized TWO names both still today JW's. One of them was someone I had know all my life and in fact had married my wife and I !!!! I was pretty shocked. The other "brother" happens to live on the same property as my JW sister & husband & where my younger bro spends time with alot as he goes to visit with our sister frequently. I was very disapointed in the organization AGAIN to say the least. I got on the phone with my ex-wife & we both agreed that we would do whatever to make sure my ten year old daughter does not get involved with this organization (I say so bec both sides grandparents are JWs).
In conclusion, thanks anitar for your post, very true & I think the only way change will come about is by making more people aware of the situation in order to force the organization to HAVE to make changes in their policies. I plan on doing my part by making sure that my mother (wife of an elder) knows about these two individuals. Im not trying to get her to want to leave but just to be aware, because the more active JW's know, the more they may question, and the more pressure can be given to the "brothers" at the top.
Michael.